Wednesday, February 16, 2005
someting i found in my email
Well...tis is yet sth i found in the buddhist subscription email....just to share with ppl...
Have SomeoneHappy belated Valentine's Day! On the subject of love, I remember Dy remarking to me that "It is good to have someone, isn't it?" I know what she means, but that remark disturbed me somewhat. Only now, about a year later, did I realise that the idea of "having someone" is an illusion, in the sense that no one can have anyone, even if one holds another in his or her arms. This is simply because people change all the time, be it for better or for worse. True love is not a thing you can get, but a process of continually understanding another and continually meeting his or her needs for spiritual, and if needed, worldly betterment. If you think you "have" someone and will live happily ever after from this moment onwards, you are wrong. Love is not a prize to gain. Because you can't have anyone, you can only choose to love another person without conditions or attachment, and to learn to let this love grow to encompass more and more. Only then is the love true, spiritual and sacred. -shiqin
Being in a relationship requires alot of courage and is tiring...searched for love quotes yest..well..seem to look at tings in a different way i guess..
just now went to coffee bean n hang out with xinying...tried the fruit tea...nice lehz...hahaz..reminds me...sunshine plaza....the taiwan ice cafe....ger when u get beta we go there lorz...hahaz... from holiday say till now...
saw the coffee bean cake leaflet...saw my ideal cake again...hahaz...its a 3 kg standard cake...lolz..the one with lots n lots of fruits...hahaz...tink will get tat for my 21 birthday...hahaz...tis year...will b 20...omg...i'm at the start of the 2 le....haiz...getting older le...
rmb tat day was discussing abt being frenz with ex...well..for me..i'm okie la...onli zhijia agreed with me...hahaz...y cant 2 ppl b frenz after the passion is over lehz? lolz...dun understand..but when i told mum abt tis..her response was..u treat ppl as fren...the person might not...brings me back to the tot of the world is such an unfair place....haiz...but i guess is the unfairness tat makes it unique horz...hahaz..wonder if me n him still frenz...hahaz...
tmr mum going for the checkup...haiz..
i really hate hospitals clinics doctors....give me tat creepy n suffocating feeling...haiz...so whoever can make me go with u to c doc...u reali power lo...hahaz...i after quek de class...going with mum to KK hospital..hahaz... wish me luck...lolz..
so hooked on the ch 8 9pm drama..hahaz..jaceyln tay looks so different..hahaz...clothes n makeup can really make or break u... cao guo hui..act as a korean...omg..he dun look like la...they like try to make him like bae yong jun like tat...haiz...stupid de...but if reality reali got such a guy....I WAN!!! hahaz... but i tink be loved is beta than loving ba...hahaz.. but if reali got guy like him...rare breed la...hahaz.. now de guys....haiz... remember this saying... good guys r either married or taken...lolz... well... where r the beta breed? hahaz...
Jemie: wish u all the best for ur upcoming trips... =) try to take pics...i wana c...hahaz..hmmm... i wan a break n go out of singapore also...hahaz... i feel like going desaru... fruits...firefly..beach... :omg: get me out of here....hahaz..
today had wanted to buy sparklers...but well....i big kid le..lolz...but i miss playing with sparklers... =( hahaz... i after light sparkler le, i will secretly make wishes...hahaz...then when burn finish le...means my wish will come true...stupid rite? hahaz... anyone wan play sparklers? i have alot alot of wishes to make...hahaz...
blogged at 11:24 PM
